Dear Sacred Companions,

After weeks of waiting for clarity about how to celebrate this 40th year threshold together, finally Monday, I was able to start putting pieces together. Little did I know, it Monday was my Hebrew birthday, the 1st of Sivan — how perfect to start really letting the magic unfold then.

This year is the 40th revolution around the sun … What does that mean?

40th Birthdays in all the Cultures

and I’m so grateful for everyone who has already said that they will be joining me for commemoration and celebration.

Since my Hebrew birthday on Sunday evening, I’ve been diving into all the magic of this birthday moment and the power of our gathering. 

For weeks, or even months, I didn’t quite know what felt most important, but then in the past 24 hours so much has come clear. 

I want to celebrate our beautiful relationships with each other and to express my gratitude for journeying together. 

There will be both online and in-person gatherings. 


We’ll be joined by my family and chosen friends..

King of Pentacles - Wise Stewardship, Stability

  • Financial and material mastery

  • Reliability, consistency, long-term thinking

  • Generosity rooted in abundance

  • Deep connection to the body, land, and tangible reality

The Lovers — Choice, Alignment, Sacred Relationship

  • Love, intimacy, and connection

  • Choosing in alignment with your values

  • Union of opposites (inner or relational)

  • Vulnerability and truth-telling

The World — Completion, Integration, Wholeness

  • Completion of a cycle

  • Integration of all parts of self

  • Expansion, travel, larger impact

  • Harmony between inner and outer worlds.

This is a time when my material life, my heart and my soul’s larger arc are in alignment